@Jehalapeno: I consider myself anarchist as well, anarchy precludes socialism, you need a strong state to be a socialist. There are a few true anarchist state, usually after series of other governments failed, the once that succeed long term are exclusively capitalist and highly religious and tribal.
Meaning they trade with each other purely on value proposition, they don’t accept foreigners easily and they have strict codes that are surprising (at least to our expectations of eg. deep Muslim and Christian ideals) ethical and equal. They will include corporal punishment of children for example, that is graduated to the point that when you become an adult, you know not to do crime, and adult crime is punished severely, you may think women are repressed, but they have orders of magnitude less domestic abuse and assault on females compared to your average Western city even when measured by outside UN reports.
People don’t realize that without government, you become reliant on each other, including your women and children, people are happy because they have roles, you ask a woman in Africa whether she is happy, she will describe that she has children and a job to do, it is inconceivable to them that people think happiness is outside fulfilling your role in society.